What Kind of Relationship Do You Want

Finding cute names to call your girlfriend (or boyfriend) is a great way to keep a strong bond between you and your partner in your relationship. But the real question is what kind of relationship do you really want? Do you want the kind of relationship where you each feel so attracted to one another that it's like you just started dating? Or do you want the kind of relationship where you both just have your own lives and just share a home and kind of "exist" together? I know what kind of relationship I want, and have, it's the first one. We all want to feel extremely attracted to the person we're with like we did in the beginning. The question is how do we keep those feelings going, or get them back?

Here is the shocking answer: we must WIN the love of the person we are with! This goes for both men and women. You see, nobody owes us love. Just because the person we are in a committed relationship loved us at one time doesn't mean they will love us forever, even if they took a vow in front of god to do so. It just doesn't work that way! If you want your girlfriend or wife (or boyfriend or husband) to love you, you have to win their love. NO EXCEPTIONS! So how do you do that?

Simple, you have to be at your best for them. Guys, do you remember when you used to open her car door for her on your first few dates? Or made sure she was always having a good time when you were out together? You used to do all of these things because subconsciously you were trying your best to attract her and WIN HER LOVE. If you want those feeling back you have to start doing what you did in the beginning.

Now this just doesn't go for the guys. Ladies you have to do the same thing if you want a great relationship. Remember when you just wanted to make your man happy, and making him happy actually made YOU happy? You have to go back to that and give your best to him. If you both do that the attraction you once had will return and you will both be extremely happy. Of course finding cute names to call your girlfriend (or boyfriend) is a great touch also. The question now is where is the best place to start?

Cute Names to Call Your Girlfriend That Wont Get You Slapped

I've come to realize that women are a fickle bunch and that we are really quite emotional when it comes to our relationships. Small comments or gestures from our significant other can either make our day or completely ruin it. I know that when my boyfriend tells me I'm beautiful or that he's happy he's with me it just send me through the roof. I really love it when he calls me by a certain nickname (which I won't reveal here) that makes me want him like I haven't seen him months! I also love it when he makes me laugh so I've put together a quick list of the funniest cute names to call your girlfriend that WON'T get you slapped. Well maybe some of them will but that's YOUR problem. :)

10. Booberry

I love this one because it's very "baby talk" which gets me every time. My boyfriend is a big, strong, tough-guy so it would be hilarious for him to call me that.

9. Bugga Boo

I think this one is funny but it can also have a negative connotation as if I might be bugging him all the time.

8. Buns of Fun

This one is great! I think I might actually call HIM that. If you saw my boyfriends backside you would completely understand.

7. Heffalump

This is from Winnie The Pooh if you didn't know. It makes me laugh but if I didn't know what it was I would think my boyfriend is calling me fat or something.

6. Junk Butt

OK, this one will definitely get you SLAPPED! I busted up laughing when I read this. I can't believe someone actually likes this. This is NOT one of the cute names to call your girlfriend!

5. J.LO

This is funny one for girls like me that have a lot of junk in the trunk. Much cuter and funnier than Junk Butt.

4. Lil Shawty

This one isn't quite my style but I guess If my man called me this it would definitely make me laugh.

3. Mushroom Head

I really don't understand this one (or maybe don't want to) but it still makes me laugh.

2. Lumlums

This one is one of my favorites that is funny but still sweet.

1. Sugar Booger

One of my ex-boyfriends actually used to call me this and it made me laugh everytime. It is sweet and sour at the same time I guess.

Now we all know that you men need to know more than just cute names to call your girlfriend. You need to show her who you really are and keep her constantly excited. So the question is what is the "right" next move?